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WHAT IS SEXUAL ENERGY and What is its Connection to Porn?

"Sexual energy is a powerful force that can either create or destroy, depending on how it is harnessed and directed."

Anais Nin

People who quit porn and masturbation report such varied and amazing benefits that it is a bit difficult to comprehend. But, if you understand a few basic concepts, which are part of Ayurveda and Chinese medicine which are thousands of year-old systems of medicine, all the pieces will fall into place. 

There is bioelectric energy called Chi in Chinese medicine and Prana in Ayurveda, which constantly circulates through every cell of your body. And, Ching also called Kama Shakti or Vital energy is the sexual energy which is produced and stored in the testicles. It is a synthesis of all other types of chi given by all the organs and glands, including the brain.

The production of this highly refined energy is very taxing on the body as it takes a large amount of life force chi to produce just a small amount of Ching. Thirty to forty percent of your daily chi energy goes into the production of sexual energy and this energy is then used in the production of sperm.

When you look at porn, Ching goes down and activates your sexual organs, it is this energy which is spent when you ejaculate. This is the reason you feel so tired and sleepy after you ejaculate.

Mantak Chia in his book “The Multiorgasmic Man” narrates a story of a man who says “Before I started practicing Sexual Kung Fu, if I had not ejaculated in a while, my sexual urge would get stronger and stronger. I would look at pornography, look for one-night stands, or go to prostitutes. After ejaculating, this urge would disappear almost instantly and I couldn’t understand why I had spent so much time and money trying to satisfy it. I would tell myself that I wouldn’t do it next time, but I knew that after a while the sexual urge would return and I would do it all over again. When I finally started practicing Sexual Kung Fu, my sexual energy was still strong, but balanced. It was the first time in my life I was happy to be a man sexually because I finally had control over my sexual energy.

A similar thing happens to us when we quit porn. The energy builds up in our head and genitals from days and nights of sexual fantasy and sexually charged surroundings and this energy if not channeled properly will lead us to porn, prostitutes and masturbation.

We live in a world which is filled with stress, tension, and anxiety, and most of the time we live in our heads and forget our bodies. We do so much of chronic thinking that all of our life force or life energy is accumulated in our head. If it builds up in our head, we begin to spend more and more time fantasizing about porn, sex, and masturbation. The solution is to circulate this energy, to bring this energy down and we will discuss some of the techniques to do that later.

The techniques which we are discussing are taken from the book "30 ROADS AWAY FROM PORN - More than 30 Real Techniques to Quit Porn".

The first 53 pages of the book can be downloaded free from HERE.

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