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"Masturbation is a temporary pleasure with permanent consequences." 


There are so many people who speak about butterfly stroke but have never gone for swimming.

Then there are those who speak about masturbation, but would never have masturbated as much as people who have finally come to a point when they ask themselves “
Is it good or Bad?

If you are masturbating and want to know if masturbation is good or bad, the best way is to quit doing it for a month and see what changes occur in your life.

Completely stop masturbating, and see how your life changes for better. If nothing changes, then, your frequency of masturbation is not much that it can have a physical or emotional effect. But it is like smoking, one Cigarette cannot kill you, but a habit of smoking will slowly and definitely kill you. Masturbating one time may not be harmful, but do it every day and you will see what effect it will have.

Consider this...

Fish don’t know they’re in the water.

If you tried to explain it, they’d say, “Water? What’s water?” They’re so surrounded by it, that it’s impossible to see.

They can’t see it until they get outside of it. Similarly,

Masturbators don’t know that it is harmful

If you tried explaining them, they’d say, “Harm? What harm is in it?”

They have done it so many times, so habitually that, it’s impossible to see.

They can’t see that harm until they stop doing it.

Some people have been masturbating for so long that they think that their life is going well, masturbation doesn’t affect them a bit. But I would like to tell you that if everybody smoked from age 5, then cancer would be considered a normal disease, as everyone would be getting it. And there would be no control group to compare against. 

Masturbating from an early age is like tying one of your hands to your back and going through life. You will grow up thinking that this is normal. But once you quit masturbation, once you untie your hand, you will see a whole new world. You will see that your potential is doubled. If you still think that masturbation is healthy, increase your frequency of masturbation in the coming days, you will see how healthy it is. You can believe what I said and improve the quality of your life, or you can go through life thinking that life is what it has been from the beginning – boring, without meaning and purposeless.

The techniques which we are discussing are taken from the book "30 ROADS AWAY FROM PORN - More than 30 Real Techniques to Quit Porn".

The first 53 pages of the book can be downloaded free from HERE.

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